Monday Moanings - November 12, 2018

It's been a while since I had a really good moan on a Monday, so I'm making up for lost time, or so it seems. I'm having trouble mustering up the energy to even enter the weak today. And YES I did use the right homonym! Did I mention that I'm a tad cranky, irritable, out of sorts? All that too describes me today.







I'm not asking for encouragement, a pep talk (please spare me) or even a hug - okay well maybe a hug would be okay,

...or perhaps a scratch along my ears and neck.

Just don't try to butter me up.

Here's the bottom line:

There are days when I'm just not up for the challenge and today is one of them. 

When my children were in elementary school, if I sensed either one of them approaching overload - a gradual but certain progression into indifference with occasion tantrums - I declared a mental health day for them, having ruled out all other causes (tests, real illness).  Morning would arrive, I'd see those listless eyes, a little body going through the motions, no protest, no emotion, and I knew it was time for a mental health day. Such days were made of blanket forts in the living room complete with favourite stuffies to cuddle with, colouring books, maybe a video or two, a grilled cheese sandwich, homemade soup, and an afternoon nap. Pure luxury.

On a very few occasions I called both kids in sick to the school, but that was sometimes more about my needs than my children's. Let me call a spade a spade here, and admit that I used my kids to justify my need to take a day away from work. It sounded so much more noble to say that I couldn't come into work today because both kids were sick than to say I wasn't feeling well enough to come to work today. And besides, I know we all benefited from our joint or separate mental health days. Kids went back to school refreshed and renewed, I went back to work energised to make up for any lost time.

I AM smiling!

So today, I'm calling in sick. I've got some crayons if colouring strikes my fancy, a video or two to lounge through, both set in warm climates, the carcass of the roast chicken from last night's supper is simmering its way along the road to soup, and there will be an afternoon nap. Pure luxury!


There's just one problem: how do I explain all the cuddly animals in the living room?

Have a great week, y'all hear?

(All photos were taken at The Royal Agricultural Winter Fair, November 8, 2018.)

©2018 April Hoeller