Thursday 25 May 2023

Thursday, or Thereabouts - May 25, 2023

 A story of Survival

They spent another night crammed together in the garage. It was the fourth time this month that they'd been hauled from their pride of place and unceremoniously plunked onto the oil-stained cement floor. Jammed in between vehicles, a generator (not running!), and tools of every description, they spent yet another cold night. They were safer though than the ones left outside. Those poor beings had only burlap rags weighed down with bricks to protect them from Jack the Nipper. 

The day star rose to full brightness and the garage door opened, flooding the huddled mass with blinding light. One of the vehicles, the great silent one, rolled out of the garage allowing a cold draft to swirl in and around each one of them. Perhaps a shudder rattled through their slender limbs, surely they shivered. But then one by one they were lifted out of dankness into the warmth and light. They heard tender words spoken in hushed tones, mumbled apologies for the hardship and encouragement to keep on growing. 

What joy! What bliss! 

There also came a solemn warning - Jack Frost, aka The Nipper, would be on the prowl again tonight. For their own safety, they would have to spend yet another night on the cement floor in the dirty garage. 


©2023 April Hoeller



Monday 22 May 2023

Monday Meander - May 22, 2023

It's a holiday Monday! 

Capping off a long weekend with sunshine. And not just any old long weekend but the summer kickoff weekend. I wrote in my Thursday, or Thereabouts post last week, that I was hoping that this great first long weekend of summer was much brighter and gentler than 2022's version and kicks off a season of  warm days and starry nights along with enough rain to keep it all beautiful. Well we got the much needed rain on Saturday, all 52mm (2.05 inches) and we got warm sun on Sunday and today. So we're off to a great start. 

It's been quiet here at the homestead. No family gatherings or other social events, which feels a bit odd, like there's something out of place. I'll try to fix that next year! Saturday's rain left me ample time to meander through photos of past Victoria Day weekends.  How and where have I let loose the bonds of winter on this revered weekend in the past?

A few times we were cruising.  

 Dover, England

Amsterdam

Venice

And guided by Schwartz, our intrepid we found places to raise a pint in every port!


But most often we are here at home where blossoms and blooms, firewood and feasts, with feathered and furry friends along with little ones decorate the days. 















Even this year, we made it fun in our own way. There was a trip into town - for more bits and bobs for the bathroom reno and new training shoes for me. What we came home with was a bag of elbows, hubs, and shut-offs, no shoes, and a new laptop computer! Turns out the computer store was beside the sports store. Who knew? And there was this sale... Need I say more? 

There was a bbq - burgers, local asparagus, and red wine, a sumptuous Baco Noir I'd been saving for just this time.


It's time to swing into summer. Let's do this!



  ©2023 April Hoeller






Thursday 18 May 2023

Thursday, or Thereabouts - May 18, 2023

The first long weekend of summer sits perched on the doorstep. Traditionally (like in my childhood!) this was called the Victoria Day weekend and officially it still is. However, more often than not one will hear it called the the May TWO-FOUR weekend in Ontario with the Two-Four subliminally suggesting a case of beer not a birthdate.

This is the weekend that the winter weary break free! Garden centres, home centres, grocery, and beer stores stand ready for the onslaught of eager, perhaps even at tad frenzied customers. Even if one is not a gardener, cottager, golfer or outdoor projects person, this is still a weekend that comes with a sigh of relief and a smile or three. We made it! It's safe to come our now.

This year, the weekend will mark the one year anniversary of a devastating storm which struck on a sultry Saturday afternoon, May 21.

Described by meteorologists as a historic derecho and one of the most impactful thunderstorms in Canadian history, winds up to 190 km/h (120 mph) as well as around four tornadoes caused widespread and extensive damage along a path that extended for 1,000 kilometres (620 mi).

Here's what it looked like outside my front windows at 1:16pm:


Although we had no significant damage, neighbouring communities did not fare so well and are still recovering. Twenty-six days later another wild storm ripped through and this time we did not escape unscathed.

Looking out the kitchen windows

Another tree down

And in the back of the house, trees had snapped but got hung up and four more were semi-uprooted and leaning toward the house.


This year I'm hoping that this great first long weekend of summer is much brighter and gentler and kicks off a season of  warm days and starry nights along with enough rain to keep it all beautiful. It's a big ask I know, but the ice in the bird bath this morning has melted and the sun is bright, so I'm feeling optimistic.

Whatever your plans are this holiday weekend, be safe out there folks, especially those of you heading out on the highways and byways on your way to open up cottages. And Please, don't drink and drive.

See ya back here on Monday.


©2023 April Hoeller


Monday 15 May 2023

Monday Meander - May 15, 2023

My daughter 1991



How can it be the middle of May already? I mean, seriously how did that happen? What have I been doing? What have I accomplished? A glance at my calendar for past two weeks looked like a map of some remote landscape dotted with occasional settlements. Surely that can't be the whole picture! Picture? PICTURES!!  I've got pictures!

My photos told a different story. While I personally may not have accomplished much this May, that doesn't mean I have nothing to show. One of the many things that I learned during the pandemic is to try be aware of and celebrate the the ordinary, normal things that happen through the seasons. And that's what I see in my photos this month.


The unfurling of spring in the forest.


The addition of pots of colour to the garden.


The annual arrival of next winter's firewood.

Progress on a bathroom reno.


Finding great sticks.


Walks in the forest.


 

Have a wonderfully ordinary week!



©2023 April Hoeller


Friday 12 May 2023

Thursday, or Thereabouts - May 12, 2023

 It's a "Thereabouts" day and as Mother's Day weekend sits on the doorstep, I've dusted off a piece I wrote some six years ago about my Mom and our visits to the bookmobile. 

The time is the late 1950's and it's a Bookmobile Day Friday...


Mom and I walked hand-in-hand down to the end of our short street where the big two-toned green bus parked for an hour a few mornings a month from 10:30 to 11:30.  Sometimes we arrived in time to watch this behemoth lumber and creak into place, but most of the time it was there already, with the stairs pulled out waiting for us. In warm weather, the driver lounged outside on the grass smoking a cigarette, but when he saw us coming, he jumped to his feet and with a big smile lifted me up into the library on wheels. Those steps were just too big for my four-year-old legs. Mom always thanked him, and the librarian who greeted us, always smiled.

Inside, both walls were lined with books floor to ceiling and the narrow hallway between them was paved with beige linoleum.  A long thin bank of fluorescent lights that ran down the centre of the bus emitted a comfortable hum.  In the summer, it was hot and airless, so we never stayed very long, but in winter the bookmobile was a cozy refuge from bitter winds, due in no small part to the engine running for the full hour.


About half way down on the driver’s side was a two-foot square window.  This was where the children’s books could be found.  A small kid-sized wooden table with two chairs sat under the window and nestled between two low vertical shelves that displayed the entire children’s collection, perhaps some twenty books in all.  Most of the time I had this special space all to myself -- it seemed not many children got taken to the bookmobile by their mom.

My favourite books were Lois Lenski’s stories about Mr. Small – Cowboy Small, Policeman Small, Papa Small, The Little Sailboat, and The Little Train, to name a few.  My all time favourite book was “Curious George”.  George and I had something in common too.  We were both very curious and that occasionally got us into trouble.





One day, Mom handed me Ludwig Bemelmans’ “Madeline”, even though I really didn’t think a story about pretty little girls in Paris, France was anything I would like.  As the story goes, Madeline is taken ill and has to go to the hospital.  I had just had such an experience, so Madeline and I had something in common.  My mom was very clever!






Sometimes I just liked to watch Mom find her books.  She scanned the shelves carefully, often with her right forefinger tracing along the bottom of the book spines until she found something of interest, at which point she pulled out the book to read the inside flap.  Then one of two things happened – she either put the book back or she went on to read the first page.  If then a smile crept across her face,  she closed the book with a satisfactory snap and added it to her book bag.



We presented our finds to the smiling librarian who great purpose, thumped the due date stamp on the slip in the back of the book and filed the borrower's card in a wooden box. Then out the door we went - with a little help from the driver - and back up the street, walking hand-in-hand.  After a lunch of grilled cheese sandwiches, we spent the afternoon curled up together on the living sofa reading our books. 



Mom and I, 1958




So many memories,
So many stories,
So much love.







To all who mother life -
hoping, fearing, dreaming,
laughing, crying, rejoicing,
nurturing, protecting, loving...

Happy Mother's Day!


©2023 April Hoeller


Monday 8 May 2023

Monday Meander - May 8, 2023

 After a weekend full of pomp, pageantry, and tradition all on display in a coronation, a horserace, and a hockey game, I'm ready for some simple joys.

Here are mine from the last 48 hours:

An English crumpet (or two!) topped with butter and local honey along with a mug of Earl Grey tea. Perfect accompaniment to my early morning viewing of the coronation.


Later in the morning a survey of our garden revealed a bounty of simple joys all highlighted by so very welcome sunshine and warmth.





Sunday came with unwelcome rain. Can we not have more than one day of sunshine? Such grumbling evaporated to the tune of  "Rain, Rain go away. Come again another day" sung out with gusto by my little ones as they splashed in the puddles...



...and a box of sidewalk chalk just waiting for an artist's hand.



Wishing you simple joys this week. 




©2023 April Hoeller

Thursday 4 May 2023

Thursday, or Thereabouts - May 4, 2023

 Some Personal Thoughts on the Coronation

I had the privilege earlier this week of being with a group of international women enjoying time, conversation together and sharing a meal along with a few laughs. The most engaging conversation I had with a few of the women was about the coronation of Charles III. Typical of what a number of news agencies have been reporting, our views were mixed with no extreme positives or negatives, just a jumble of thoughts and feelings either side of neutral.

 The New Yorker© cover speaks volumes!

And what is my view? It's an important historic event and I'll be tuning in early (5:00am here) Saturday morning. Though this will be the second coronation in my lifetime, I was just shy of two months old when Queen Elizabeth was crowned, so this will be the first one I'll be able to watch as it happens. That's exciting!  Also, it could well be the only one I see if Charles shares his mother's longevity and persistence and his reign outlasts me.




Then there is the question of the future of the monarchy as a viable, relevant institution. It's a fair question in the 21st century. There are fifteen constitutional monarchies in the British Commonwealth of Nations, of which my home and native land, Canada is one.  Perhaps the reign of Charles III is the opportune time for reflection, evaluation, and decision on whether we choose to become a republic. Such an undertaking can be no swift kick to the curb but will require much care and consideration. In the meantime, I have no reservation or objection to pledging my allegiance to the monarch. It is my duty and obligation as a Canadian. 





However, I do have doubts and reservations about the person about to be crowned King. Charles does not warm my heart. He does not inspire my confidence, and the Queen Consort even less so. I'd be very happy and even relieved to have my reservations proved unfounded, and that is my best hope. 

May King Charles live up to his late mother's wise words:

"When life seems hard, the courageous do not lie down and accept defeat;
instead, they are all the more determined to struggle for a better future."

September 8, 2022 Queen Elizabeth II


God Save the King!

p.s. Though I may nosh on tea and crumpets while I watch the coronation in my jammies on Saturday morning, I assure any and all that I will neither be making nor eating a Coronation Quiche! A quiche with fava beans?! Are you kidding me?

©2023 April Hoeller